Another’s Perception

Good afternoon, my resilient fallen angels! Today I’m going to discuss the concept of differing perception. What may seem like a huge deal to you may not have any effect on someone else. Dating is a easily explainable example. Love is blind. You might be dating someone, putting them on a metaphorical pedestal for all the world to acknowledge. Little you may know, however, this same person you have such high hopes for is not as angelic as they may seem. Friends and family are constantly telling you that he’s not good for you or that it would be best to break things off before it’s too late. “Before it’s too late…” What does that even mean? They see him for what he truly is, someone less than worthy, someone not meant to stay for long. A side character that an author would eventually kill off. But the praise you give him clouds your judgment. Who knows? Maybe your loved ones are wrong about him. They don’t know him like you do. Perhaps they are jealous and are attempting to sabotage your relationship. Maybe he is an angel sent from Heaven to save you from yourself. I’m speaking facetiously, of course. No human being deserves to be on that pedestal that you have constructed to be so sturdy and so supportive of the great weight he places on your shoulders every waking moment of your life. I might have gotten on a tangent just now, but my point is that any aspect of life you can think of can be viewed in many ways. Besides love, differing perception plays a starring role in anything. Recently, I did something embarrassing in the presence of my family. The event replays in my mind on repeat. Little did I know that when I slipped it into a conversation with my brother, I realize he forgot it ever happened. Something that you obsess over may not even phase anyone else. Because he forgot what happened, that means that it was not a significant enough memory to store in his mind. I’m taking a course in Psychology this semester. I’m starting to think I should major in psychology. Matters of the mind are so intriguing to me. Open your mind and acknowledge that there are many sides to a story, an object, an event, a person. Don’t ever don the qualities of a narcissist because you inevitably close your mind from ever realizing that you can learn something new from anything you think you fully understand. Or that you have flaws you need to work on improving. Take constructive criticism into consideration rather than taking offense to it. Walk in your enemy’s shoes or even your most closest friend. Try to contemplate how others see the world. Have a wonderful day! Over and out.

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10 comments

  1. Bunnet · May 28, 2015

    It funny because I read this and never been in this situation, but I have always been on the OTHER side. Just about everyone I dated as been told be relatives, that I’m no good or they should drop me like hot potato, and that because I give the wrong first impression but after they get to know me, most them know how I’m kind person

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    • tpcsufian · May 28, 2015

      That’s interesting. People give first impressions too much importance.

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      • Bunnet · May 28, 2015

        They do, as matter fact it happen only about month ago and the girl’s parents apology to me

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      • tpcsufian · May 28, 2015

        Yeah! The parents always try to psychoanalyze you when they’re biased. They aren’t gonna like you at first regardless lol

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      • Bunnet · May 30, 2015

        It issue with having long hair, not dressing nice and owing sports cars, so they see a person who is not responsible. Don’t take into account I work for my 3 cars, and do the maintenance

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      • tpcsufian · May 30, 2015

        Thats awesome that you any cars at all 🙂 i guess dressing nice wouldnt hurt though. Other than that, you dont gotta shave your head or buy sports cars to please anyone. It probably wouldnt make a difference anyway. People are gonna judge regardless lol

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      • Bunnet · May 30, 2015

        Well with the cars, I usually collect rare sports cars and repairs them and give second chance to drive.
        I taught about actually dressing nice and taking few pics before but feel silly

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      • tpcsufian · May 30, 2015

        Its okay. Just try your best 🙂

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  2. Ashley Lagro · May 29, 2015

    Hi! We haven’t talked in so long! Do you have my number? Text me!

    Liked by 1 person

    • tpcsufian · May 29, 2015

      Ashley! Hi! No i lost your number. Do you have facebook?

      Like

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